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E16: Gaslighting how to recognize and respond to manipulation

The video discusses the concept of PUA (Pick-Up Artist) in Chinese culture, emphasizing the importance of self-worth and inner strength to navigate relationships effectively and avoid falling into the trap of psychological manipulation. The hosts encourage individuals to focus on their own self-evaluation and confidence rather than seeking validation from others, ultimately empowering themselves to make choices that prioritize their well-being.

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Published on 2024-12-03

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